Updated: Jun 2, 2020
The art of negotiation is the procedure of communicating back and forth in order to come to a mutual agreement. Negotiation is done when two parties have different expectations and must come to a mutual agreement before a contract can be signed. The most experienced negotiators will bring an attitude of high expectations to the negotiation table. They work hard to solve the problems and are easy on the people. It’s more effective to remain cooperative and efficient in order to preserve a civil relationship between the buyer and the seller, so they can work together to solve any problems and to complete the transaction as painlessly as possible.
When negotiating a contract over buying a home you want to get the lowest possible price and close on the house within a reasonable amount of time so you can move in.
1. Let the seller know what you need or expect in a clear and reasonable manner. Sometimes a buyer may submit a letter to a seller depicting why the property is not worth the asking price and pointing out the faults. This is a sure way to start the negotiations off with a defensive seller. It would be best to anchor a reasonable price, while continuing to remain polite and respectful of the sellers’ home.
2. Be prepared to solve any repair, title, survey or loan problems fairly; so there are no future problems to be addressed at closing.
3. Never respond to offers emotionally. This combative style of negotiating can turn the seller angry or defensive and can escalate into negative comments, table pounding and threats to walk out on the offer.
4. Keep your cool. Never argue. Arguing can sometimes make the seller want to work against you instead of working with you.
5. Do not be too quick to respond. Do not ignore or respond to the sellers’ arguments or statements immediately. Make it known that you are listening carefully and considerately, but do not reject or accept any offers until you have had time to carefully consider them.
6. Have any unclear portions of the proposals clarified completely.
7. Never discuss personal issues that involve the seller or buyer, such as an urgency to move in or a financial status.
8. Let trust increase the buyers leverage by: listening and understanding what the seller has to say; convey an appreciation or admiration for the sellers home decorating and gardens; and respond to counter offers within a reasonable time frame.
9. Find a common ground with the seller. This can be a very powerful tool used to the buyers’ advantage in the event of multiple offers. Sometimes a seller may select a buyers’ contract for personal reasons, like if the buyers’ family reminded the sellers of themselves when they bought a home with their young children, or just by sharing the same religion.
10. Understanding your leverage as the buyer. The more the buyer can find out about the seller’s needs, the better chance the buyer has to find solutions in negotiation. The buyer must be able to appeal to the seller’s concerns. For instance, if the house has been on the market for over 300 days, the seller will have a lot more leverage than they would have with a brand new listing. If the sellers time frame is forthcoming, then the buyer can meet it with some leverage, unless the seller’s have multiple offers.